We’re in our heads and not so much in the experience,” says Fleming. “The first time we try anything, we’re doing what we call spectatoring, which is observing ourselves, how it’s going, what we thought, what our partner thought. The research is clear that people tend to be more open and receptive when already aroused.”Īnd if you don’t like the sensation of a new toy the very first time you use it, don’t give up on it just yet.
“If you want to build up reception to a new toy, start off when you’re already highly aroused. Whip out that new toy when you’re actually turned on (and not as a way to turn yourself on). What should men know when trying new sex toys? “Sometimes trying a more affordable model gives you a sense of what a sensation is like and whether you like it.” Of course, if you already know what feeling you like and you need a recommendation for the best sex toy that aligns with that, we’ve got you too. “Start with a less expensive model,” Fleming advises beginners.
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